tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1381989878477019621.post7071211806992692047..comments2023-06-15T10:11:18.476-04:00Comments on Written Expressions: the blog: Workin' itAmiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15321668888778513489noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1381989878477019621.post-30815205187080842852009-03-10T09:58:00.000-04:002009-03-10T09:58:00.000-04:00Thanks Lori. That would take a lot of pressure of...Thanks Lori. That would take a lot of pressure off me, as I HATE to talk about myself.Amiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15321668888778513489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1381989878477019621.post-29872837784781872782009-03-09T08:15:00.000-04:002009-03-09T08:15:00.000-04:00Great first attempt! Here's my piece of advice; pu...Great first attempt! Here's my piece of advice; put yourself in the mindset not as being on display, but as there to fulfill a mission. Your mission is to interview a few people rather casually without them realizing they're being interviewed. :)) Same few questions - what's your business? How long have you been doing that? What's your key market? What do you enjoy most?<BR/><BR/>That's it. The change in perspective makes you feel less like the spotlight's on you. People LOVE to talk about themselves - giving them the space makes it easier to get to know them.Lorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18045985667596964511noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1381989878477019621.post-18745365093525272962009-03-08T13:56:00.000-04:002009-03-08T13:56:00.000-04:00Angie, thanks for cheerleading! Anthony, you're ri...Angie, thanks for cheerleading! Anthony, you're right. I didn't exactly go into it with a positive attitude, and perhaps thinking that I was going to be miserable created a self-fulfilling prophesy. Next time, I will try harder! Thanks for the links, too.Amiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15321668888778513489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1381989878477019621.post-31946974400653725582009-03-07T18:45:00.000-05:002009-03-07T18:45:00.000-05:00Hi Amie,I agree with Angie, you did great for your...Hi Amie,<BR/><BR/>I agree with Angie, you did great for your first time. I do recommend you keep going out to networking events but I suggest you change your expectations and outlook first. Otherwise you will just keep experiencing the same outcome until you grow tired and stop networking altogether.<BR/><BR/>I see you went to the LinkedWorking event, from what I hear that event was roughly 300+ people. Try attending smaller networking groups first until you get more comfortable.<BR/><BR/>- I found a video for you that I think will help you relax more and feel more comfortable during networking events. I included the link at the bottom of this post. <BR/><BR/>- I suggest getting creative with your name tag. Some people list words that describe their interests or what they are looking for under their name. In your case I recommend you write under your name "Talk to me! :-)" (yes with a smiley face) <BR/><BR/>Nothing seems more inviting or friendly than a nametag that states: "Hi there. My name is Amie. Talk to me. I’ll talk back. I’m friendly!"<BR/><BR/>Just have a genuine smile. People will come over to you.<BR/><BR/>- networking is the deliberate process of making connections for mutual benefit. Therefore don't make it a contest of how many business cards you can hand out or receive. Instead look to be helpful, give advice, ask questions and make friendly connections.<BR/><BR/>- Drop the elevator pitch. Instead listen to the other person, try to understand their business. Show a genuine interest and they in turn will feel connected to you and remember you.<BR/><BR/>I find that once you build the bridge, you will benefit from all the traffic that runs over it. Most people come to networking events to pitch. I instead come to connect, and build friendly business relationships.<BR/><BR/>- Know when to politely excuse yourself when someone is dominating too much of your time. Be honest and let them know you would like to grow your network and meet other fascinating people such as them. <BR/><BR/>-Learn some body language – watch other people having conversations and notice the subtle signs that show when they are interested, and when they are not. Do it right and you’ll be such a great listener that people will become genuinely interested in what you do. <BR/><BR/>- Follow up! So important.<BR/><BR/>- Most importantly relax and enjoy yourself. Cheers!<BR/><BR/>Links:<BR/><BR/>Video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mFlc2zRL3dU&feature=channel<BR/><BR/>Sites:<BR/>- http://www.nytimes.com/2008/12/21/jobs/21career.htm?_r=1<BR/><BR/>- http://leanmarketingpress.com/lean-marketing-press-articles/networking-cliches-and-how-to-avoid-them/<BR/><BR/>- http://meetup.openingyou.netAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1381989878477019621.post-41873763986924884562009-03-07T07:47:00.000-05:002009-03-07T07:47:00.000-05:00You did great for your first voyage. Advice? Keep ...You did great for your first voyage. Advice? Keep going. You'll have more familiar faces to approach and reconnect with. Definitely put Writer on your nametag!Angie Ledbetterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16407006980893727627noreply@blogger.com